How a forgotten childhood recipe can map the small moral habits we inherit

When I recently found a folded index card at the back of a kitchen drawer—edges browned, handwriting a little spidery—I felt the sudden clarity of someone else’s small ritual. On the card was a recipe for lemon drizzle cake, written in my grandmother’s hand. I hadn’t thought about that...

How a forgotten childhood recipe can map the small moral habits we inherit
Feb 26, 2026 • by Élise Laurent

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